I haven't seen it mentioned already, but might be surprised at how much a difference you can experience just by learning to type a bit lighter. Almost no switch/keycaps/chassis combo is going to be silent if you're really hammering the keys down. If you can train yourself to push down just to the activation point, you won't bottom out, and the return force when you lift off will be less, reducing the click on the upstroke. It can be a real struggle to undo the muscle memory you've built up over the years, but it also doesn't cost anything.
If that doesn't work for you, you might look into Jailhouse Blues/Greens, especially if you for for JSpacers or o-rings for the mod. The Jailhouse Outemu Blues in my work keyboard are the quietest mechanical switch I've experienced first hand, quieter than MX Browns with o-rings, quieter than damped cream alps, and the tactility is good too.