Dating advice

[Grim Fandango]

I would just be careful given the situation you are in. Some tact may be necessary.

I also met my girlfriend when she was still in another relationship. Personally I just demanded that she left him as soon as I noticed we were getting "romantically involved". She did. 6 years later we are still together. She moved in with me about 6 months after she broke up with her boyfriend. Some people of course suspected that she cheated, which she did not.

[tp4tissue]

I would just be careful given the situation you are in. Some tact may be necessary.

I also met my girlfriend when she was still in another relationship. Personally I just demanded that she left him as soon as I noticed we were getting "romantically involved". She did. 6 years later we are still together. She moved in with me about 6 months after she broke up with her boyfriend. Some people of course suspected that she cheated, which she did not.

Do you know why defectors are often beheaded right after their usefulness has ended...  because if they betray their original party, it is in their character to betray YOU as well...  this isn't a moral thing I'm pushing, I'm merely saying eyes-out...   less of-course you're in an open relationship, in which case, w/eves

[Malphas]

This "omg she's cheating, that means she'll cheat on you someday" line of thinking going on in this thread is one of the most stereotypically pubescent things I've ever read.

[Grim Fandango]

I would just be careful given the situation you are in. Some tact may be necessary.

I also met my girlfriend when she was still in another relationship. Personally I just demanded that she left him as soon as I noticed we were getting "romantically involved". She did. 6 years later we are still together. She moved in with me about 6 months after she broke up with her boyfriend. Some people of course suspected that she cheated, which she did not.

Do you know why defectors are often beheaded right after their usefulness has ended...  because if they betray their original party, it is in their character to betray YOU as well...  this isn't a moral thing I'm pushing, I'm merely saying eyes-out...   less of-course you're in an open relationship, in which case, w/eves

Except she never cheated. It is more like we both noticed that we hung out more than you could consider "normal", and it was not behind anyone's back. We had been friends for some time. When I noticed that was going on, I commented on it, she agreed and broke it off with her boyfriend at the time. I think we both were pretty clean and honest about it. There was no kissing, or anything inappropriately intimate before she broke up with him.

Also, I have pretty much zero fear of her cheating on me regardless. And if we were to drift apart and she would find someone else, I wish she would behave the same as she did when she met me. That is , tell me honestly and in advance. I would never want to be with someone who does not want to be in a relationship. If it is over, it is over. Though right now that seems unlikely to happen.

[iri]

malphas, this line was posted by a teenager named sth, he doesn't know life. don't take his postings seriously.

[Trent]

dude if she's cheating on her current SO with you, what the **** do you think she's gonna do when she gets unhappy with YOU? tell her to make her mind up before you get too emotionally invested man.

This.

[Leslieann]

Though I would consider it a more lonesome life as people are spread more thinly across..

Actually, your are more likely to be single living in a big city than is the more rural areas. Scientists think it has to do with so many options that people don't want to settle.

Also, population density depends on the area, Southern (actually much of) of California is entirely too crowded and has a housing shortage. 1/8th of the U.S. now lives in California.

[RiGS]

I have my kitty cat, and that's all the **** I need to pet for now. I will just keep telling myself this lie.

Buy a Russian bride? I'm sure we have some Russians here; oh yeah!

Ask iri to set you up!

Trust me you don't wanna hang with Russian women. My dear mother is Russian!
Asian girls FTW.

[sth]

This "omg she's cheating, that means she'll cheat on you someday" line of thinking going on in this thread is one of the most stereotypically pubescent things I've ever read.

it's not a guarantee but it's a bad, bad sign if he's looking for a committed relationship. go buy somebody some stereotypical date gifts

[Input Nirvana]

Ukraine girls are soooo hot. I want to try them out. What their test drive policy is?

1) come near a group of ukrainian girls
2) start speaking english
3) ...................................
4) PROFIT!!!!11111

appendix a: no, she doesn't love you, she just wants a green card

My dearest Iri...you so don't understand. I'm not handing out green cards, nor am I interested in a Ukraine girl in the U.S. I purely want to go to the Ukraine and sample the goodies like I did in Prague. GREAT times, Input Nirvana knows party.

[tp4tissue]

Ukraine girls are soooo hot. I want to try them out. What their test drive policy is?

1) come near a group of ukrainian girls
2) start speaking english
3) ...................................
4) PROFIT!!!!11111

appendix a: no, she doesn't love you, she just wants a green card

My dearest Iri...you so don't understand. I'm not handing out green cards, nor am I interested in a Ukraine girl in the U.S. I purely want to go to the Ukraine and sample the goodies like I did in Prague. GREAT times, Input Nirvana knows party.

This is bad if you trick them into thinking they're getting a green card out of the deal...

if you're upfront about it, then that's A-ok.

[tp4tissue]

Though I would consider it a more lonesome life as people are spread more thinly across..

Actually, your are more likely to be single living in a big city than is the more rural areas. Scientists think it has to do with so many options that people don't want to settle.

Also, population density depends on the area, Southern (actually much of) of California is entirely too crowded and has a housing shortage. 1/8th of the U.S. now lives in California.

I was not talking about relationship between man and women specifically.. but there is much more door to door in other cultures than the privacy obsessed American style.

for example, i tell my friends that when they get to my house, just open the door and come in.. they can't seem to handle this, and always call me when they're in front of the door to come to the door.

One time, a guy even left because I didn't pick up the phone when the battery was out... and then he blamed me for not picking up the phone,, he didn't even ring the doorbell..

[Input Nirvana]

Ukraine girls are soooo hot. I want to try them out. What their test drive policy is?

1) come near a group of ukrainian girls
2) start speaking english
3) ...................................
4) PROFIT!!!!11111

appendix a: no, she doesn't love you, she just wants a green card

My dearest Iri...you so don't understand. I'm not handing out green cards, nor am I interested in a Ukraine girl in the U.S. I purely want to go to the Ukraine and sample the goodies like I did in Prague. GREAT times, Input Nirvana knows party.

This is bad if you trick them into thinking they're getting a green card out of the deal...

if you're upfront about it, then that's A-ok.

I prefer to really screw over people and take advantage of their disadvantages with lies and deception. This is best. I consider it a profession and deduct all incurred expenses as a sex tourist on my taxes. Find me now, you NSA ****ers.

[tp4tissue]

Ukraine girls are soooo hot. I want to try them out. What their test drive policy is?

1) come near a group of ukrainian girls
2) start speaking english
3) ...................................
4) PROFIT!!!!11111

appendix a: no, she doesn't love you, she just wants a green card

My dearest Iri...you so don't understand. I'm not handing out green cards, nor am I interested in a Ukraine girl in the U.S. I purely want to go to the Ukraine and sample the goodies like I did in Prague. GREAT times, Input Nirvana knows party.

This is bad if you trick them into thinking they're getting a green card out of the deal...

if you're upfront about it, then that's A-ok.

I prefer to really screw over people and take advantage of their disadvantages with lies and deception. This is best. I consider it a profession and deduct all incurred expenses as a sex tourist on my taxes. Find me now, you NSA ****ers.

unrestricted deviance will be your undoing.

[iri]

Ukraine girls are soooo hot. I want to try them out. What their test drive policy is?

1) come near a group of ukrainian girls
2) start speaking english
3) ...................................
4) PROFIT!!!!11111

appendix a: no, she doesn't love you, she just wants a green card

My dearest Iri...you so don't understand. I'm not handing out green cards, nor am I interested in a Ukraine girl in the U.S. I purely want to go to the Ukraine and sample the goodies like I did in Prague. GREAT times, Input Nirvana knows party.

oh, i'm pretty sure i understood you quite well. what you need to do is go to ukraine and follow those easy steps.

[RiGS]

Could you elaborate more on step 3? It seems a bit vague to me.

[tp4tissue]

Could you elaborate more on step 3? It seems a bit vague to me.

step 3 is .............   aka "don't be weird"

[RiGS]

Weird like doing that helicopter stuff with your weiner?

[TheSoulhunter]

Weird like doing that helicopter stuff with your weiner?

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[thegunner100]

What you need to do is send her 600 emails.

) RiGS: If you have not read this yet, do! It is hilarious and sad at the same time:
http://vgperson.tumblr.com/post/21533650696/help-the-girl-i-like-wont-respond-to-my-emails

Thanks for wasting an hour of my morning. That's some real ****ed up **** right there if it was true. Now to go make some breakfast... 

[Halverson]

What you need to do is send her 600 emails.

) RiGS: If you have not read this yet, do! It is hilarious and sad at the same time:
http://vgperson.tumblr.com/post/21533650696/help-the-girl-i-like-wont-respond-to-my-emails

Thanks for wasting an hour of my morning. That's some real ****ed up **** right there if it was true. Now to go make some breakfast... 

DENKO-CHWAAAN!

[thegunner100]

Poor Denko

[Halverson]

(´･ω･`)

[Input Nirvana]

Ukraine girls are soooo hot. I want to try them out. What their test drive policy is?

1) come near a group of ukrainian girls
2) start speaking english
3) ...................................
4) PROFIT!!!!11111

appendix a: no, she doesn't love you, she just wants a green card

My dearest Iri...you so don't understand. I'm not handing out green cards, nor am I interested in a Ukraine girl in the U.S. I purely want to go to the Ukraine and sample the goodies like I did in Prague. GREAT times, Input Nirvana knows party.

oh, i'm pretty sure i understood you quite well. what you need to do is go to ukraine and follow those easy steps.

Non of that is really my game, even though I know it is for others, fun to joke though. But disco all night in Prague with the locals was definitely off the hook. I just think Ukraine girls are hot. Not gonna date, import, marry, fold, spindle or mutilate. But they they are hot (Mila Jovovich).

Input Nirvana OUT!

[thegunner100]

I can tell Denko’s just tsundere, man.

I laughed pretty hard at that line xD

[Halverson]

I can tell Denko’s just tsundere, man.

I laughed pretty hard at that line xD

Dating advice in a nutshell, the romance of a lifetime.

[iri]

I just think Ukraine girls are hot

and sluttish. which is good for you!

[Malphas]

This "omg she's cheating, that means she'll cheat on you someday" line of thinking going on in this thread is one of the most stereotypically pubescent things I've ever read.

it's not a guarantee but it's a bad, bad sign if he's looking for a committed relationship. go buy somebody some stereotypical date gifts

It would be a bad sign if she was deliberately and purposefully trying to maintain two distinct relationships concurrently over longer than short term, with one of the people involved not knowing. That's not at all what is happening here, in fact it doesn't even sound like cheating at all to me. Adult relationships/life in general is messy.

malphas, this line was posted by a teenager named sth, he doesn't know life. don't take his postings seriously.

Well now things make more sense.

[Leslieann]

I was not talking about relationship between man and women specifically.. but there is much more door to door in other cultures than the privacy obsessed American style.

for example, i tell my friends that when they get to my house, just open the door and come in.. they can't seem to handle this, and always call me when they're in front of the door to come to the door.

Being from California, I freak out when customers tell me to just go in while they are at work.

Anyhow, the U.S. is quite a diverse place, with many different attitudes depending on where you are.

[Grim Fandango]

I was not talking about relationship between man and women specifically.. but there is much more door to door in other cultures than the privacy obsessed American style.

for example, i tell my friends that when they get to my house, just open the door and come in.. they can't seem to handle this, and always call me when they're in front of the door to come to the door.

Being from California, I freak out when customers tell me to just go in while they are at work.

Anyhow, the U.S. is quite a diverse place, with many different attitudes depending on where you are.

This is pretty funny. I grew up this way. Everyone was always welcome at my parents place. We had a piece of rope that came from the little lever that you could pull to open the door, that went through the space in the door intended for mail (this is common in holland), so kids in the neighborhood could let themselves in.

As an adult, I live in a big city, so I can not exactly leave my door open all day. However, 2 of my best friends have a key, and they are welcome to use our apartment when they are in the city. They see this as something pretty special, though for me it is normal. There is also something you get in return for your hospitality, like friends coming over to your place instead of you always having to visit theirs, since they feel at home.

I do tell them not to use my computer though XD

[Leslieann]

I do tell them not to use my computer though XD

Scared they might find your weird porn stash? 

[sth]

Ukraine girls are soooo hot. I want to try them out. What their test drive policy is?

1) come near a group of ukrainian girls
2) start speaking english
3) ...................................
4) PROFIT!!!!11111

appendix a: no, she doesn't love you, she just wants a green card

My dearest Iri...you so don't understand. I'm not handing out green cards, nor am I interested in a Ukraine girl in the U.S. I purely want to go to the Ukraine and sample the goodies like I did in Prague. GREAT times, Input Nirvana knows party.

This is bad if you trick them into thinking they're getting a green card out of the deal...

if you're upfront about it, then that's A-ok.

I prefer to really screw over people and take advantage of their disadvantages with lies and deception. This is best. I consider it a profession and deduct all incurred expenses as a sex tourist on my taxes. Find me now, you NSA ****ers.

unrestricted deviance will be your undoing.

better to do and be done than to stay undone

[Input Nirvana]

I just think Ukraine girls are hot

and sluttish. which is good for you!

I just think Ukraine girls are hot

and sluttish. which is good for you!

I know they aren't any more/less sluttish than any other collection of women/men. But they are most certainly some of the hottest. High cheek bones, sultry eyes, bee sting lips....WOWZA!

Too bad they are in such a tough country. Rough winters, low opportunity, etc. 

Ukraine girls are soooo hot. I want to try them out. What their test drive policy is?

1) come near a group of ukrainian girls
2) start speaking english
3) ...................................
4) PROFIT!!!!11111

appendix a: no, she doesn't love you, she just wants a green card

My dearest Iri...you so don't understand. I'm not handing out green cards, nor am I interested in a Ukraine girl in the U.S. I purely want to go to the Ukraine and sample the goodies like I did in Prague. GREAT times, Input Nirvana knows party.

This is bad if you trick them into thinking they're getting a green card out of the deal...

if you're upfront about it, then that's A-ok.

I prefer to really screw over people and take advantage of their disadvantages with lies and deception. This is best. I consider it a profession and deduct all incurred expenses as a sex tourist on my taxes. Find me now, you NSA ****ers.

unrestricted deviance will be your undoing.

better to do and be done than to stay undone

True dat brotha!!!!

[iri]

Rough winters

in ukraine?! then what winters we have here in central russia, let alone siberia?! "apocalyptic"?!

[RiGS]

Just a quick follow up on the date. Today, after five years I met her again. Oh boy, such a disappointment!
I have no idea what I liked about her back then. Maybe it was the fact that she was only eighteen.



QFT

[tp4tissue]

Just a quick follow up on the date. Today, after five years I met her again. Oh boy, such a disappointment!
I have no idea what I liked about her back then. Maybe it was the fact that she was only eighteen.

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QFT

Post pictures.... where are the pictures....

[sth]

Just a quick follow up on the date. Today, after five years I met her again. Oh boy, such a disappointment!
I have no idea what I liked about her back then. Maybe it was the fact that she was only eighteen.

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QFT

damn!! sorry you got disappointed but maybe it was for the best.

[RiGS]

Absolutely!

[Input Nirvana]

Rough winters

in ukraine?! then what winters we have here in central russia, let alone siberia?! "apocalyptic"?!

U haz hot girlz ther?

Just a quick follow up on the date. Today, after five years I met her again. Oh boy, such a disappointment!
I have no idea what I liked about her back then. Maybe it was the fact that she was only eighteen.

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QFT

Aaaahhh....she was a pipe dream all along. It wasn't about her, it was about you after all, which is good. I'm glad you found out what it really was, but sorry you had to be disappointed. I guess my PM to you was kinda right on :)

Someday I should charge for my sage direction and advice. Damn I'm good!

[RiGS]

Actually I'm quite happy about it. Damn she was really annoying and boring. Also aging is the worst enemy of a fine woman.

[sth]

Also aging is the worst enemy of a fine woman.

yo i'ma give you the benefit of the doubt but... ಠ_ಠ

[Input Nirvana]

Actually I'm quite happy about it.....Also aging is the worst enemy of a fine woman.

Ain't gett'in naughty if yo ain't no hottie!!!

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
HHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Tru dat.

[iri]

Rough winters

in ukraine?! then what winters we have here in central russia, let alone siberia?! "apocalyptic"?!

U haz hot girlz ther?

yesez.

[davkol]

Well, majority is very... Russian. I guess it's a cultural thing, but I wouldn't touch them even with a ten-foot pole.

[Tym]

Well, majority is very... Russian. I guess it's a cultural thing, but I wouldn't touch them even with a ten-foot pole.

[iri]

Well, majority is very... Russian. I guess it's a cultural thing, but I wouldn't touch them even with a ten-foot pole.

why?

[davkol]

Well, majority is very... Russian. I guess it's a cultural thing, but I wouldn't touch them even with a ten-foot pole.

why?

• Looks. If I go to Karlovy Vary or random porn site, I can almost always tell whether the woman is Russian, or not. Some of them are textbook examples of sluttiness (based on looks).
• Behavior. My experience is that Russian tourists are the most arrogant in the whole Europe. For example a woman that insisted on entering the St. Peter's Basilica dressed as a slut. Yeah, she was Russian.
• Nationalism. AFAIK many Russians still believe that the Russian Empire can exist again; I've heard random Russians say stuff like "Czechoslovakia 1968? 10/10, would invade again".
• Mentality.  It's hard to explain... Anyone who's read byliny and compared them to other European folklore probably knows what I mean. Completely different values. It's like when Americans occupied Japan after WW2 and had hard time understanding Japanese culture and society.

[iri]

If I go to Karlovy Vary or random porn site, I can almost always tell whether the woman is Russian, or not

just out of curiosity -- how can you tell the etnicity of a naked white woman?

[Input Nirvana]

If I go to Karlovy Vary or random porn site, I can almost always tell whether the woman is Russian, or not

just out of curiosity -- how can you tell the etnicity of a naked white woman?
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By smell?
God that's funny?

[davkol]

If I go to Karlovy Vary or random porn site, I can almost always tell whether the woman is Russian, or not

just out of curiosity -- how can you tell the etnicity of a naked white woman?

Sigh, you must have noticed that native people look different in different areas. Most people with Russian origins are easy to recognize. Same thing in case of Nordic countries, south Europe or German-speaking countries.

Unfortunately, I've found out I'm not able to describe people (faces specifically).