Quest: My quest was to find a pure keypress experience for the spacebar, cherry stabs are stiff, not easy to mod, not easy to replace, not easy to find, while costar provides a purer keypress experience, on the surface that is, I noticed the clinks when I got my first mechanical keyboard, since it had Cherry MX Red's it was easy to notice, I moved onto Cherry MX Green's so the stabiliser sounds merge into the switch sounds, and they did, however it still remained as an unsolved problem, after recently diving into the stabiliser dynamics more, I saw that it's futile to superficially try to solve the issue, since the wire is horizontal, it's either going to hit the stabiliser insert one way or another, so one side of the spacebar gets an optimal keypress, while the other side always gets a wire-to-plastic sound, as during the keypress, one side of the wire leans to the insert-top, the other side of the wire has to lean to the insert-bottom of the other side, it's how it works
The Solution: Well the solution is obvious after this analysis, it's close to njbair's suggestion but a lot more specific, since it's impossible to solve the issue with an horizontal wire, the solution is to bend the wire so it's no longer fully horizontal
(When I mention the "wire", I mean the wire-ends, the parts that go into the slider inserts)
The Experiments: I tried bending the wire downwards, it makes more sense, when bended downwards, the smooth surface of the wire rubs the insert, it would last a lifetime that way, however I quickly noticed that when the wire-ends are bended downwards, the wire touches the plate at keypresses, so that didn't work, however, if I made this analysis before building my keyboards, I would put an empty area there that the wire could enter, it would make things perfect (I just realised that I could drill the plastic plate I have to put those empty areas, but I would rather keep on using this wire and see how it goes for now, it's perfect, I hope it lasts a long time)
So the remaining option is to bend the wire-ends upwards, it requires a lot of experimentation to find a wire dynamic that gets the spacebar stabilised when pressed on both ends, but re-bending+testing the wire like 10 times produces the wanted results, along the way, sometimes the wire presses on the insert, the keypress experience with that state of the wire is pretty similar to a cherry stab
Here is a photo of the bended wire, in this photo it's bended downwards, but in my end result I find the perfect dynamic using an upwards bended wire, forgot to take a photo, but it's similarly bended
If anyone is going to attempt this, make sure you have 5-6 spare wires, I probably wasted 2 wires, as tools, I used 2 pliers that are wrapped with painter's tape so they don't damage the wires, I also sanded the wire-ends a bit afterwards, in hopes that the wire-end doesn't carve the insert too quickly
It's also important to note that I built 2 keyboards, one with tactiles and one with clicky switches, the clicky switched one uses the default wire and although I tested it a lot, I couldn't find anything wrong with it, which is great, so this is more of an issue with tactile and linear switches, as you tend to hear even the slightest of imbalance related clinks (they occur on fast bottom-downs, with clicky switches, fast bottom-downs have a click sound, so the sounds blend in most of the time)