They just go to work dressed up.. Say, Hello, and boom..
If A guy wants to cheat, he has to go workout for 3 months, cut carbs, pay a months worth of some other female's food bill, Listen to and REMEMBER the things she says, THEN maybe, he gets to cheat..
Then, they see what all these other women from much more affluent family units have, and they feel ****ty that their husband and partner can't provide those things for them..
Jeebus, have you developed fire yet or are you still learning to walk upright?
I know you are stuck in the stone age for computers, but you don't have to hold onto stone age gender stereotypes too. As for cheating, some people are not monogamous by nature, others are but still cheat, when they do, it's often because emotional needs are not being met at home. Yes, even for men. It's often less about sex, and almost never because of money (it's pretty rare when an affair will help you monetarily unless it's prostitution).
And no, you don't have spend a fortune on food if you do it right, I'm more impressed by a nice local place I never heard of than an expensive restaurant, it shows he did some research instead of breaking out his wallet and isn't just trying to buy me. The same with looking like Brad Pitt in his prime, you don't have to be sexy, smart, rich, or powerful, there are poor, fat, ugly, strange, short, and nerdy guys who get laid on a regular basis. If you spent as much time and effort on women as you do on keyboards and archaic computers (and GH!), you could too. Where is your focus in life? The guys who have sex often is because they worked at it, figured out what to say, how to say it, and put themselves out there. You may hate the "players", but they invested themselves in figuring out the game while you spent your time learning how to install Windows. On the other hand, it's good you have a hobby because for some guys, that IS their hobby, and when they finally meet that one person they want to be with, they suddenly need a new hobby.
Oh and there's nothing wrong with a van down by the river (lake, beach, mountains, etc...) if you have the right van (note: not mine).
