i think it's more about how you carry yourself. this kind of mannerism can be fairly neutral if you just aren't being pretentious or annoying in general. i've been trying to lean less into people's issues, I find it really hard to get along with people when I do. generally, I feel like if you put anyone under a microscope for long enough, you'll find stuff you don't really jibe with. as in, no one's perfect, but if someone's imperfections are bothering you too much, it's probably not a good sign for you two. if it's a stranger, you probably won't have to face them for very long so just let it pass.