It's a combination of problems.
We had media consolidation, so it's no longer free press as it was, the big megaphones are so big, that it eclipses the "freedom" we have.
It doesn't matter how FREE you are to Speech, if someone can just speak infinitely LOUDER about THEIR agenda, they've successfully suppressed FREE.
The people in charge have too much wealth and power.
They leverage that power to distract us from real social problems, income inequality, war mongering, crumbling infrastructure, CLIMATE CHANGE. The media gets us bickering about inconsequential things, to distract us from the MAJOR undoings they've undertaken beneath that cover.
Gender pronouns pretty much matter to NO ONE, Neither the person who created their own, Nor the person who is too lazy to learn a new word. It makes 0 actual difference. People invent their own words and slang all the time, we put it on urban dictionary , and that's it.
But what exactly is gender politics, they purposely create a rift between 2 persons who don't really care one way or another, they make them hate each other over this diminutive difference. And they leverage this strife in the voting process.
As for the it's a "disease" argument. It's obviously not a disease. There is only some evidence that environmental pollutants and specifically hormones in sewage indicate exposed animals can incur odd gender behaviors, gay fish. I honestly wouldn't be surprised there is an industrial chemical element to the increase of non-binary people born over time. Microplastics has also shown to be an endocrine disruptor, there may be down stream consequences. It's probably the MILK though, all the estrogen. Modern industrial Cows are milked while pregnant, the milk contains a huge amount of animal estrogen which work exactly like human estrogen in the body. Men who drink alot of milk develop m00bies. Do pregnant women taking in lots of milk and milk derivatives alter the developmental chemistry of the fetus ?