According to my wife, buckling springs are much more unbearable than blues. I'm in the camp that buckling springs are legitimately louder than blues, by a fairly significant amount. Not only are they louder, but they are a different kind of loud. Blues have a relatively "simple" sound compared to buckling springs.
With blues, you get the thock of the keycap and the click of the stem, that's pretty much it. With buckling springs, you have the thock of the keycap, the ker-chunk of the buckling spring, and a slight rattle of the spring as well. There's some other stuff in there that I can't identify. But in the end, it's a rather unpleasant, complicated sound that is much more likely to annoy people (in my experience).