Lets not forget the soldering tip, one of the biggest variables. Needs to be clean and tinned or it DOESNT WORK. Also, choosing the right tip like chisel vs conical and using the correct angle. This takes practice.
So, I just built my first board, and it went fairly smoothly. Had a few bad joints that I was able to desolder and redo, and they turned out ok. However, the tinning process just never seems to go right for me. I cleaned the tip, then plugged in the soldering iron, and tinned as it warmed. However, it tended to form blobs on the iron instead of a smooth coating, and after tinning, it would almost immediately oxidize and turn the tip blueish green, then go dark. If I ran the tip through my brass wool tip cleaner, it would get rid of the excess and usually leave me with a temporarily silvery tinned tip, but it would also oxidize after a few joints, and then upon trying to retin the tip, it would take about 3 seconds and not flow great. I spent way too much time trying to keep the tip clean...however, eventually got it to where I was cleanly doing joints in about 2 seconds, and so I didn't mess with it again. (and yes, I was applying heat to the pin and pad and melting the solder with the other side of the pin and pad and not the tip of the iron.)
Anyway, I got the board done, and really got the hang of the joints by the end, but I have to imagine there is something I'm doing wrong with regards to tinning the tip, so I'm hoping for some tips to reduce that frustration. Is it just the fact that my iron is cheap? (it has adjustable temperature and removable tips, but it's like a $20 iron).