i still use gay and retarded, i'll be hanging with friends and if i see a neon yellow car go down the street, i'll be like "that's gay and retarded", i guess in a way it's pretty southern like, most of us grew up just calling things gay or retarded, oh yea i'm sure now i could replace retarded with stupid, like "oh that conservative republican is acting mightly stupid(retarded)", it doesn't have the same gumption, i guess it works, but man, what's a good replacement for gay?