I've personally gotten a set of 150 clear orings from another seller @ $3.72, and when I asked about the hardness, the seller replied with 40A orings. After using them for a while, they do feel pretty soft with some sound dampening.
I've used them on Thin Ducky PBT keycaps and Thick Cherry PBT keycaps and I personally don't find them too thick. Each person has different preferences when it comes to switch feels however.