Dating advice

[RiGS]

It's worth a try even if there is a possibility to hurt myself. However I'll be cautious.

Send her a nice birthday wish, and let her control the tempo.

Just because it's her birthday changes nothing, and just because she is unhappy doesn't mean you should step in as the night in shining armor. Doing anything that jeopardizes her current relationship can seriously blow up in your face should they decide to stick it out even a little longer.

I will take your advice. Thanks!

[noisyturtle]

Is this what GH is being reduced to, high school break up threads for saddos?

[tjcaustin]

Careful, you didn't give him a cheat code to unlock her heart, so you're clearly just projecting.

[Leslieann]

However one thing I am certain about is that she has genuine feelings for me. She even admitted it. And she is very careful with her words. When she says something she really means it.

Yeah, my buddy had the same thing, he even has two kids with the girl who did it to him.
She likes/loves him, but only gets with him when she is single. It's not a matter of boredom, it's a guy she likes a lot, but not enough to marry or even be in a long term relationship with. She knows he will always be there waiting for her and she knows he will also always be there for the kids when she needs someone to watch them. In fact having kids with him, only further cemented her hold over him for a long time, and who better to do it with than the guy who you KNOW will be at your beck and call? She did this for about ten years before he found someone else and married her instead, otherwise, I know for certain she would still be doing it to him.

Be careful, your situation is very, very similar.

Women can be/are dogs too, the difference is that we typically hide it better because we would be slut shamed for it while guys just get a high five.

[tp4tissue]

Is this what GH is being reduced to, high school break up threads for saddos?

[tp4tissue]

It's worth a try even if there is a possibility to hurt myself. However I'll be cautious.

Send her a nice birthday wish, and let her control the tempo.

Just because it's her birthday changes nothing, and just because she is unhappy doesn't mean you should step in as the night in shining armor. Doing anything that jeopardizes her current relationship can seriously blow up in your face should they decide to stick it out even a little longer.

I will take your advice. Thanks!

I agree with keeping things simple.

Since it seems you genuinely intend to court this girl for reasons outside of gratification, I will refrain from offering my usual psychological manipulations.   

Had you posted, yo dawg, how i get up in dis ha'oh, my advice would be different

Truth is though deep down I wish there does exist Love, and that people have it. 

Though through my schooling and real world interaction, it always seem mechanical rather than magical.

Perhaps the best advice would be to approach this with a balance of the two. What I mean by that is, make her believe that you two will ride a unicorn into the sunset, except that unicorn would actually be a Ferrari when it comes time.

[SmallFry]

TP4, that was the suckiest troll post ever. Please try again.

[tp4tissue]

TP4, that was the suckiest troll post ever. Please try again.

I am not trolling... And I generally wouldn't in this type of thread.. Not that I ever troll, ever.. in any thread.

Edit:

There are dire consequences for providing improper models of human pair bond relationships,  Primarily, single parents, discarded/orphaned children, and real dead babies.

It's funny to joke about it, but, it potentially ruins 3 lives, which may perpetuate terrible social conditions further.

This is the one thing people should take seriously on the internet.

[demik]

whip it out

[sth]

whip it out

helicopter for bonus points

[jabar]

run away, you're too young for this crap

[Input Nirvana]

I agree with keeping things simple.

Since it seems you genuinely intend to court this girl for reasons outside of gratification, I will refrain from offering my usual psychological manipulations.   

Had you posted, yo dawg, how i get up in dis ha'oh, my advice would be different

Truth is though deep down I wish there does exist Love, and that people have it. 

Though through my schooling and real world interaction, it always seem mechanical rather than magical.

Perhaps the best advice would be to approach this with a balance of the two. What I mean by that is, make her believe that you two will ride a unicorn into the sunset, except that unicorn would actually be a Ferrari when it comes time.

WTF? ?

[Input Nirvana]

whip it out

Classic

[demik]

run away, you're too young for this crap

which is also possibly the reason why he's in this crap

[tp4tissue]

run away, you're too young for this crap

which is also possibly the reason why he's in this crap

at least she's not married.

[metalliqaz]

at least she's not married.

Married chicks are way easier to seduce

[missalaire]

****... people asking for dating advice now on a keyboard forum? I say we open a new subforum called the "Love Line"!

[demik]

man i used to love love line.

too bad adam carolla stop being funny.

[ApocalypseMaow]

600 emails expressing your true feels

Oh tears of joy! This is rich right here. 

[ApocalypseMaow]

whip it out

If she bolts, it was never meant to be. If she stays...

[Andrew3000]

Hasn't anyone suggested a TKL as a gift yet? It's page 3 already!  )

[demik]

we try to not bring up keyboards in this part of geekhack

[Tym]

Reading trough this thread; getting depressive as crap then Sth & Demik make my laugh my right nut off.

[iri]

at least she's not married.

Married chicks are way easier to seduce

[tp4tissue]

at least she's not married.

Married chicks are way easier to seduce

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I often think this is whole older women "milf-chase", is just a fantasy, because I've never met anyone where this type of relationship actually occurs. 

[AriesX]

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[tp4tissue]

at least she's not married.

Married chicks are way easier to seduce

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I often think this is whole older women "milf-chase", is just a fantasy, because I've never met anyone where this type of relationship actually occurs. 

my friend is witha woman 20 years older than him, and actually moved to utah to live with her.. but i dont see it lasting

does she fit the description in the picture posted though?

[AriesX]

at least she's not married.

Married chicks are way easier to seduce

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I often think this is whole older women "milf-chase", is just a fantasy, because I've never met anyone where this type of relationship actually occurs. 

my friend is witha woman 20 years older than him, and actually moved to utah to live with her.. but i dont see it lasting

does she fit the description in the picture posted though?

hits 4 out of the 5 points

[vun]

Is this what GH is being reduced to, high school break up threads for saddos?

****... people asking for dating advice now on a keyboard forum? I say we open a new subforum called the "Love Line"!

No, calm your **** guys, it's one thread. One. No need to get up in arms, take your sensationalism elsewhere, it's not funny. It's a guy posting an off-topic thread in the off-topic forum.
And it's not people asking for advice about love on a keyboard forum(technically it is), it's someone asking for advice about love from other people.


OT;
Obligatory "the internet is not the best place for advice on love and medical issues."
Good luck, though, I do hope it works out for you.

[RiGS]

^ This.
I already got what I wanted from this thread. Thank you for your help.
I got some really nice advices through PM as well.

[Soarer]

[daerid]

dude if she's cheating on her current SO with you, what the **** do you think she's gonna do when she gets unhappy with YOU? tell her to make her mind up before you get too emotionally invested man.

This needs to be re-iterated. x1000 times.

[RiGS]

She is not cheating on anyone. We haven't even met for five years.

[SpAmRaY]

She is not cheating on anyone. We haven't even met for five years.

I wonder if the person you were in 'love' with 5 years ago is still that same person?

I mean that in a most sincere way, I know after being married for almost 7 years that my wife is definitely not the same person I first met but obviously we have made many life changes together and are committed to each other.

[RiGS]

We both changed over the years that is for sure, and I will never know the truth unless I meet her again.

However thanks to you now I'm inclined to believe that she wants to keep me in her friend zone and uses me as her security blanket.
It seems like a lost cause, but that's fine. Finally I am aware of it. I definitely won't stress about it and I'm going to keep on doing what I'm doing.

[Findecanor]

What you need to do is send her 600 emails.

) RiGS: If you have not read this yet, do! It is hilarious and sad at the same time:
http://vgperson.tumblr.com/post/21533650696/help-the-girl-i-like-wont-respond-to-my-emails

[WhiteFireDragon]

Any ideas would be appreciated.

Steak, football tickets, and beer. Works every time. Don't do flowers, they die too easily.

[RiGS]

I simply texted her my friendly and somewhat personal birthday wishes. She appreciated it and called me back.

What you need to do is send her 600 emails.

) RiGS: If you have not read this yet, do! It is hilarious and sad at the same time:
http://vgperson.tumblr.com/post/21533650696/help-the-girl-i-like-wont-respond-to-my-emails

That is some serious ****!

[Malphas]

Depends on the girl, but jewellery is the easiest one - all women like jewellery, but I'd get vintage; it's much less gauche and flashy. If she's pseudo-intellectual or "creative", then books (out-of-print or early edition obviously, not just paperbacks from Amazon) or art (plenty of inexpensive artists going about) are good ones. All of these things are good for making up some BS story about as well, to make the whole thing more interesting instead of the reality of you purposefully finding it on eBay.

[Malphas]

Oh it's too late, nevermind.

[TheSoulhunter]

dude if she's cheating on her current SO with you, what the **** do you think she's gonna do when she gets unhappy with YOU? tell her to make her mind up before you get too emotionally invested man.

^ That!

[noisyturtle]

I have my kitty cat, and that's all the **** I need to pet for now. I will just keep telling myself this lie.

[Tym]

I have my kitty cat, and that's all the **** I need to pet for now. I will just keep telling myself this lie.

Buy a Russian bride? I'm sure we have some Russians here; oh yeah!

Ask iri to set you up!

[jdcarpe]

Listen to your boy Young MC:

Man, that put me in dilema
Case in point a fly girl name Gema
I met this lady at a quiet place
about 5 years ago we were face to face

I stepped up to her
tossed the first line
Like fishin' I was wishin'
that the girl would be mine

I told my best jokes and she started smilin'
a voice inside said yo young your stylin'

But then Gema really startin actin' silly
Cuz she broke up with her boyfriend Billie
She wanted advice and she was coming to me

I said you need dear Abby not the young MC
Because I dont mind being a shoulder to cry on
But I need one who needs a body to lie on

Cuz nowadays I got girls by the bunches
See I got smart and just rolled with the punches!

Roll with the Punches bby Young MC

[tp4tissue]

I have my kitty cat, and that's all the **** I need to pet for now. I will just keep telling myself this lie.

hahaha, isn't that also what keyboards are for? trading love for cold complacent mechanical idols? 

[demik]

I simply texted her my friendly and somewhat personal birthday wishes. She appreciated it and called me back.

What you need to do is send her 600 emails.

) RiGS: If you have not read this yet, do! It is hilarious and sad at the same time:
http://vgperson.tumblr.com/post/21533650696/help-the-girl-i-like-wont-respond-to-my-emails

That is some serious ****!

that's it?

tell me you also sent her a picture of your shlong.

women love that

[tjcaustin]

I simply texted her my friendly and somewhat personal birthday wishes. She appreciated it and called me back.

What you need to do is send her 600 emails.

) RiGS: If you have not read this yet, do! It is hilarious and sad at the same time:
http://vgperson.tumblr.com/post/21533650696/help-the-girl-i-like-wont-respond-to-my-emails

That is some serious ****!

that's it?

tell me you also sent her a picture of your shlong.

women love that

Esp if you're in government.

[Input Nirvana]

....I already got what I wanted from this thread. Thank you for your help.
I got some really nice advices through PM as well.

Your welcome, you obviously liked what I wrote. But you are aware this thread isn't about you. I now know more about everybody that posted than I could have discovered in a year.

Reading trough this thread; getting depressive as crap then Sth & Demik make my laugh my right nut off.

I yukked my left nut completely off and out the door, don't know where it went. It was my favorite of the two.

Buy a Russian bride? I'm sure we have some Russians here; oh yeah!

Ask iri to set you up!

Ukraine girls are soooo hot. I want to try them out. What their test drive policy is? I wonder if losing my left testy will be a problem?

Iri, set me up!

[iri]

Ukraine girls are soooo hot. I want to try them out. What their test drive policy is?

1) come near a group of ukrainian girls
2) start speaking english
3) ...................................
4) PROFIT!!!!11111

appendix a: no, she doesn't love you, she just wants a green card

[tp4tissue]

Ukraine girls are soooo hot. I want to try them out. What their test drive policy is?

1) come near a group of ukrainian girls
2) start speaking english
3) ...................................
4) PROFIT!!!!11111

appendix a: no, she doesn't love you, she just wants a green card

United States is a great place to live, this is for sure...

Though I would consider it a more lonesome life as people are spread more thinly across..