Am hawt?
Yes
I know how?
I have been told many times, grills touch their neck and do **** that you notice. Its like subconscious or some ****
How does this change things?
Generally I am the weirdest person in the room, I know this, I enjoy being myself so I will not change, and I do not care and am confident with who I am. The result? People are very relaxed around me, I will openly have a chop at them if they are doing something weird and have a laugh about it. This also helps people relax.
Hawt or not, a very attractive quality is about making people feel comfortable around you.
If you pretend you are cool around grills and then said grill takes a liking to you and then you actually are not the person that you were pretending to be, than said grill does not know you. Whereas if you are really ****ing weird like me, and you just end up doing it normally, if grill takes a liking to you, than you have nothing to worry about.
EDIT: Also, yes being attractive does help in life. Like it or not, its an advantage. Some people are delusional and say **** like it doesn't matter what you look like and that you are a special snowflake and are unique. They are wrong and probably poor. Being attractive gets you places. It makes you a more likable person, because biology (inb4 argue with me, go do some reading first)